Same sex marriage & Sikhsm (Homesexuals and Lesbians)

smilMgI ivAwh qy sYks ividAw

22 meI 2015 dw idn rIpbilk Aw& AwierlYNf Aqy dunIE Br dy kYQoilk jhwn ivc iek qvwrI^I idn hY[ ies idn ies mulk dy 62% lokW ny ieko ilMg dy (smilMgI) lokW ivc (mrd dI mrd nwl qy AOrq dI AOrq nwl) SwdI nUM mnzUrI id`qI hY[AwierlYNf ies mnzUrI vwlw pihlw mulk nhIN hY; nwrvy, svIfn, knyfw, bYljIAm, inaUzIlYNf, nIdrlYNfz, &rWs, fYnmwrk, spyn, swaUQ A&rIkw, ieMglYNf, skwtlYNf, AmrIkw dy bhuq swry sUby, Xwin kul 20 mulk, ies nUM pihlW hI mwnqw dy cuky hn[AwierlYNf v`loN ies nUM AYnI v`fI AksrIAq nwl kbUl krnw bwkI mulkW dy kwnUMnW qoN vD AhmIAq rKdw hY[ bwkI dy mulk protYstYNt (jo k`tV nhIN) iesweI AksrIAq vwly hn pr AwierlYNf kYQoilk eisweiAw dI AksrIAq vwl mulk hY[

kYQoilk iesweI Drm dy mwmly ivc bhuq izAwdw k`tV hn; keI nukiqAW „qy qW auh Sr`eI muslmwnW vW| k`tV hn[ 2002 ivc aunHW ny AbwrSn (grBpwq) sbMDI hoeI rweySumwrI ivc ies nUM 50.4% dI mwmUlI jhI AksrIAq nwl r`d kr id`qw sI[ pr aunHW v`loN ieko ilMg dy lokW ivckwr SwdI nUM mwnqw dyxw dunIAW Br dI qvwrI^ ivc qihlkw mcwaux vwlI g`l hY[

Aijhw jwpdw hY ik hux k`tV DrmW vwilAW nUM vI smJ Awaux lg peI hY[ auh 21vIN sdI qy Awaux vwlIAW sdIAW dy ihswb nwl socx lg pey hn[ dUjy pwsy auh vI hn ijnHW ny keI-keI sdIAW purwxIAW hwlqW, shUlqW. Soc qy zrUrqW bdlx dy bwvjUd A`KW, idmwZ qy rUhW nUM qwly mwry hoey hn[ aunHW nUM Akl, ielm, sUJ, dlIl, hkIkq qy s`c nwl Swied n&rq hY[ auh 2015 ivc vI „ieslwimk styt‟ bxwaux dw su&nw dyK rhy hn[ auh swry Bwrq nUM ihMdU bxwaux dw mUrKwnw ^uAwb bux rhy hn[ auh is`K Drm nUM gurU nwnk swihb dI soc qoN vI 1000 swl ip`Cy iljwaux dy mnsUby GV rhy hn[

A`j SwdI nW dI jmwq (sMsQw, ieMstIicaUSn) dIAW nIhW ih`lIAW peIAW hn[ Drm dw Zlq mwAnw k`Fx vwilAW ny SwdI dw ArQ iek`Ty rihxw, sYks krnw, b`cy pYdw krnw bxw id`qw sI[ ies ivc AOrq mrd dI kYdn, nrk vwsI, mrd dI DONs qy zulm sihx qy b`cy pYdw krn vwlI mSIn sI[ iPr Drm vwilAW ny sYks nUM isr& ie^lwk bxw id`qw sI[ ies ivc ipAwr, dosqI, sWJ, ieksurqw nUM koeI QW nhIN sI[ b`cy nw pYdw krnw nUM vI pwp bxw id`qw igAw sI[ qlwk nUM mrd dI guMfwgrdI dw h`knwmw krwr id`qw hoieAw sI[ ies sB ny SwdI nW dI jmwq dIAW cUlW ihlw id`qIAW[ ijauN hI qlwk kwnUMnI hoieAw, hzwrW qy l`KW AOrqW v`loN qlwk dy mukdmy Aw gey[ aunHW mrd dI hYNkV, zulm qy D`kySwhI kbUl krn qoN nWh kr id`qI[

ies hwlwq ny p`Cm ivc iek`Ty rihx dI iprq nUM jnm id`qw[ SwdI qoN ibnw mrd AOrq ie`kTy rihx lg pey[ auN\ ieh vI iek iksm dI SwdI vwlI jmwq ho inbVI ikauN ik ies ivc vI b`cy pYdw hox lg pey; ijnHW ny sgoN vD msly pYdw kIqy[ ibnw b`cy pYdw kIiqEN iek`Ty rihxw, sYks mwnxw, ies dUjy dy mddgwr qy dosq bxnw hor g`l sI[ hOlI hOlI sYks ividAw dw prswr hoieAw;lokW nUM grB rokx, kMfom, 28 idn dIAW golIAW (ipl), lUp, kw`pr tI, grB rokU 72 GMty dI golI vZYrw dw pqw l`gw[ ies ny iek`Ty rihx ivcoN b`cy pYdw krn nUM kw&I h`d qk mn&I kIqw[

iesy iek`Ty rihx ivcoN hI smilMgI SwdIAW dw ruJwn SurU hoieAw hY[

ipCly 10 kU swl qoN ies soc dw prswr p`CmI muulkW qoN Bwrq qy pwiksqwn ivc vI phuMc igAw[ A`j id`lI, bMbeI, cMfIgVH,hYdrwbwd, krwcI, lwhOr qy hor keI SihrW ivc hzwrW ibnw SwdI iek`Ty rihx vwly joVy iml jwxgy[ ies nwl Drm, rUhwnIAq Aqy ienswnIAq nUM hrigz nukswn nhIN hoieAw blik ies nwl nrVW vW| izMdgIAW k`tx vwly lokW qy qlwk dy muk`dimAW ivc kmI AweI hY[

ieM\ hI sYks ividAw ny vI bhuq &wiedw phuMcwieAw hY[ Drm dy nW „qy ies dI mu^wl&q krn vwilAW nUM ieh nhIN pqw ik ies ividAw dI AxhoNd ivc ikMnIAW kuVIAW AbwrSn krvwauNdIAW hn jW nwjwiez b`icAW dIAW mwvW bx jWdIAW hn[ aunHW nUM ieh nhIN pqw ik ies dI AxhoNd ivc eyfz qy hor sYks bImwrIAW dw ikMnw prswr ho cukw qy ho irhw hY[ auh qW mMdrW, msijdW qy gurduAwirAW ivc bYT ky pUjw dw Dwn Kwx ivc hI msq hn[ ieh byhUdw g`l hY ik isr& ieh prcwr kIqw jwvy ik isr& nwm jp ky, pUjw pwT kr ky, kQw, kIrqn sux/kr ky kwm qoN bicAw jw skdw hY qy sYks ividAw dI koeI zrUrq nhIN[ sw& dyKx ivc Aw irhw hY ik mOlvI, pwdrI, pujwrI, gRMQI qy pRcwrk, ijnHW ny ie^lwk dw prcwr krnw huMdw hY (Aqy krdy hn) aunHW ivcoN ikMnI v`fI igxqI ivc auh bdie^lwkI hrkqW ivc jylHW ivc bYTy hoey hn[ hwlW ik Swied 1 jW 2% GtnwvW hI zwihr huMdIAW hn, 98% qW Srm dy mwry dbw id`qIAW jWdIAW hn[ Drm dy nW „qy ikMnw pwp huMdw hY ieh nhIN jwxdy[ myry i^Awl ivc ieh jwxdy hn pr dMB krdy hn[

Aihmk lok ieh nhIN smJdy ik sYks ienswn dI muFlI zrUrq hY[ ieh EnI hI zrUrI hY ijMnw Anwj Kwxw; Swied kuJ hwlqW ivc ieh AMn qoN vI vD zrUrI ho skdw hY[ ies nUM zrw mwsw dbwieAw jW GtwieAw qW jw skdw hY pr ies nUM Drm dy lYkcrW, pUjw pwT, hvn, hnUmwn cwlIsw, cMfI cirqr vZYrw dy nW „qy ^qm krnw mUrKW dI dunIAW ivc rihxw hY[ mYN kwljW qy XUnIvristI ivc pVHwauNdw irhw hW[ myrI vwk&IAq dw dwierw keI hzwr lokW nwl injI irhw hY Aqy hux vI hY[ mYN lokW dy GrW dI (^ws kr ky kuVIAW dI) hwlq nUM b^UbI jwxdw hW[ sYks nUM rokx jW dbwaux dy nqIjy kdy vI cMgy nhIN inkly; ies ivcoN isr& qy isr& qbwhI hI inklI hY[

ies qoN hox vwly nukswn qoN bcwA dw iek v`fw qrIkw sYks ividAw dyxw hY[ b`cy 8 GMty skUl/kwlj ivc rihMdy hn; jvwn ho ky 8 GMty kMm „qy rihMdy hn[ iek dUjy nwl nyVqw huMdI hY[ ies nyVqw ivcoN ijsmwnI iK`c ho jwxw mwmUlI jhI g`l hY[ 50 qoN 75% lokW ivc AijhI nyVqw kwm dI iK`c bx jWdI hY[ koeI ijMnw mrzI JUT bol lvy pr hkIkq iehI hY[ ies sB ivc kwm irSqy bxnw koeI v`fI g`l nhIN[ so AijhI sUrq ivc ieko iek Akl dI g`l ieh rih jWdI hY ik aunHW nUM sYks vidAw id`qI jwvy qW jo auh ^qirAW qoN cOks rihx[

sYks ividAw dI mu^lw&q krn vwly jy ieh socdy hn ik ies nwl b`cy sYks KyfW nhIN Kyfxy qW auh pwZlW dI dunIAW ivc rih rhy hn[ hW auh sYks dIAW bImwrIAW Aqy AbrSnW dI igxqI zrUr vDwauxgy[ hW iek hor qrIkw hY ik b`cIAW dw 10 swl dI aumr qoN mgroN GroN inklxw bMd kr idqw jwvy (jo kwnUMnI qor qy nhIN kIqw jw skdw)[ so sYks ividAw EnI hI lwzmI hY ijMnI Dwrimk ividAw dI AhmIAq hY[

ies lyK sbMDI kJ s`jxW ny svwl kIqy sn; jvwb hwizr hn:

  1. gurbwxI ivc kwm nUM zbq ivc r`Kx dI isiKAw hY; ies nUM rokx dI nhIN[ gurbwxI ivc iksy dI pqnI nUM Bogx qoN roikAw hY; pr, AwpxI swQx nwl byhd kwm AnMd dI KulH id`qI hY (sgoN QW-QW „qy r`j ky „AnMd‟ mwnx vl ieSwrw hY)[ jd guUrU jI jIvwqmw qy pRmwqmw dy myl dI g`l krdy hn qW aus ivc mrd-AOrq dy AnMd mwxn dI isKr (crm sImw) dI imswl dyNdy hn[ so gurbwxI qW „ipAwr dy AnMd‟ nUM h`d drjy qk mwxn nUM kbUl krdI hY[
  1. gurbwxI ivc ikqy vI iek qoN vD swQI r`Kx qoN nhIN roikAw hoieAw (pr ies dw mwAnw ieh nhIN ik ijhVw mrzI iksy nwl vI jbr znwh kr lvy)[ ikauNik ieh mrd pRDwn smwj sI (Aqy hY) ies kr ky ieh KulH AOrq nUM nhIN id`qI hoeI ik auh iek qoN vD swQIAW nwl „AnMd‟ mwx skdI hY (ies dw iek kwrn Swied AOrq dy ijsm dI mjbUrI vI sI ik auh grBvqI bx jWdI hY qy mrd Awpxw „AnMd‟ lYx mgroN Awzwd duVMgy mwrdw iPrdw hY)[ AKOqI dsmgRMQ ivclI cirqropwKXwn ivc kwm AnMd dI h`d id`qI hY pr auh qW swrw hI ivBcwr hY qy auh vI durwcwr (prvrSn) dI h`d qk[ kwm iqRpqI ienswn dI zrUrq hY; pr ie^lwk (Aqy kwnUMn) dy dwiery ivc rih ky[ kwm nUM ZYr kudrqI qrIikAW nwl jW jbrI dbwauxw S^sIAq nUM qbwh kr dyNdw hY[
  1. mYN smilMgI irSiqAW dy h`k ivc nhIN; pr mYN smJdw hW ik hr iek nUM h`k hY ik auh AwpxI mrzI nwl jIvy[ homo jW lYsbIAn nUM swfy pUrbI smwj ny „ZYr ie^lwk‟ bxwieAw sI[ pr, dlIl (qrk) dy p`K qoN ieh hrigz Zlq nhIN hY[ auN\, keI i&lws&r qW mrd qy AOrq ivckwr (SwdI ivcly jW SwdI qoN bwhry) Bog nUM vI “ienswn dy AMdr dy jwnvr dI kwrvweI” mMndy hn[ ies mrd-AOrq ivcly Bog dI mnzUrI Ajoky smwj dI id`qI hoeI hY; ieh koeI ielwhI nhIN hY[ ieM\ hI smilMgI irSiqAW „qy pwbMdI ielwhI nhIN hY[
  1. is`K Drm ivc smilMgI (homo jW lYsbIAn) bwry koeI hdwieq nhIN[ qusIN iKfOixAW nwl sYks nUM Zlq nhIN mMndy; pr kI gurbwxI ies dI iejwzq dyNdI hY?

gurbwxI cMgw ienswn bxwauNdI hY[ “iksy dw nukswn kIqy ibnw” kIqI koeI vI kwrvweI mYnUM is`KI isDWqW dy ault nhIN jwpdI[ jy qusIN myrI ies g`l nUM nhIN mMndy qW gurbwxI ivcoN hvwlw idE[

  1. hr iek nUM injI izMdgI ijaUx dw h`k hY[ pr Srq ieh hY ik auh iksy dw h`k nw mwr irhw hovy; iksy nwl izAwdqI nw kr irhw hovy; ikdy dw nukswn nw kr irhw hovy[ ies nwl smwj ivc koeI qbwhI nhIN AwauNdI[swrw p`Cm ieh swrw kuJ (homo qy lYsbIAn izMdgI) keI dhwikAW qoN jIA irhw hY; kI auQy APrwqPrI, Arwjkqw, Ainscqqw (AMgryzI vwlI ky-Aos) vwlI hwlq hY? kwnUMn Aqy ie^lwk dy dwiery ivc rih ky, AwpxI mrzI nwl ijaUxw, ienswnI h`k hY[ so homo jW lYsbIAn dy h`k Eny hI hn ijMny ivAwhy mrd qy AOrq dy hn[ s`c qW ieh hY ik swfy isstm ivc ivAwh “pUrbI smwj dy kwnUMn dI mnzUrI nwl kIqw jwx vwlw sYks” hY, ijs nUM p`Cm ny bhuq h`d qk r`d kr id`qw hY[
  1. qusIN kihMdy ho ik homo jW lYsbIAn kudrqI nhIN[ vIr jIE, ieh kudrqI jW ZYr-kdrqI qW swfy Ajoky smwj ny bxwieAw hY, r`b ny nhIN[ jy ies nUM r`d krnw huMdw qW gurU jI gurbwxI ivc sw& jW ieSwry ivc ilK dyNdy[ ijs g`l dw gurbwxI ivc izkr nhIN jy auh bwkI is`K &ls&y dy ault nhIN hY qW auh mnHw nhI hY[ ieh injI soc hY ik auh aus nUM Apxwvy jW nw[ mYN injI qor qy homo jW lYsbIAn nUM nwmnzUr krdw hW pr, jy koeI AijhI izMdgI ijaUNdw hY qy iksy dw nukswn nhIN krdw qW mYN aus dI ihmwieq krWgw[
  1. mYnUM iek bIbI ny mYsj bwks ivc svwl ByijAw hY ik qusIN ESo qy ^uSvMq isMG vWg bybwk ilKx lg pey ho[ aus dI ^wihS sI ik mYN ies dw jvwb tweIm lweIn „qy dyvW[ mYN aus bIbw jI nUM kihxw cwhvWgw ik quhwnUM myrI hr ilKq ivc bybwkI qy inJkqw nzr AvygI[ mYN isr& r`b dy iehsws qoN frdw hW ies kr ky mYN KulH ky ilKdw hW[ auN\ hr shI ivdvwn ESo, ^uSvMq isMG qy idlgIr vW| hI bybwk ho ky hI ilKygw[

(fw. hrijMdr isMG idlgIr)