Sikh Kakaar & Facial hair or women

kkwr, kys, rom, AOrq dy ichry dy vwl

jdoN guru goibMd isMG jI ny Kwlsw prgt kIqw qW aunHW ny is`K vwsqy kuJ cIzW krn dI pwbMdI lwgU kIqI sI Aqy kuJ cIzW lwzmI kIqIAW sn[ ienHW dw izkr sw& l&zW ivc B`t vhI BwdsoN prgnw Qwnysr ivc ieM\ mldw hY:

gurU goibMd isMG mhl dsmW bytw gurU qyg bhwdr jI kw swl sqrW sY pcwvn mMglvwr vYswKI ky idMhuM pWc isKoN ko kWfy kI pwhul dI isMG nwm rwKw[ ipRQmY dYAw rwm sopqI KqrI bwsI lwhOr Aw Klw hUAw[ pwCY mohkm cMd CIpw bwsI dvwrkw, swihb cMd nweI bwsI ibdr z&rwbwd, Drm cMd jvMdw jwt bwsI hsqnwpur, ihMmq cMd JIvr bwsI jgnnwQ bwro bwrI Kly huey[ sb ko nIl AMbr pihnwieAw[ vhI bys Apnw kIAw[ hu`kw, hlwl, hjwmq hrwm; it`kw jM\U DoqI kw iqAwg krwieAw[ mIxy, DIrmlIey, rwm rweIey, isrguMm, msMdW kI vrqn bMd kI[ kMGw, krd, kysgI, kVw, kCihrw sB ko dIAw[ sB kysDwrI kIey[”

ies muqwibk is`K vwsqy (1) hu`kw (qMmwkU), hlwl, hjwmq hrwm hn[ (2) is`K it`kw, jM\U, DoqI nhIN vrq skdw[ (3) ieh pMj kkwr lwzmI hn: kMGw, krd („krd‟ &wrsI dw l&z hY; ies dw mwAnw cwkU nhIN bl ik iq`KI ikRpwn hY), kysgI (dsqwr), kVw, kCihrw[

kys ik kyskI ?
Akwl q^q dI „rihq mirAwdw‟ ivc BwvyN pMjvW kkwr „kys‟ iliKAw hY pr aupr B`t vhI ivc sw& iliKAw hY ik kysDwrI hoxw lwzmI hY pr kkwr kys nhIN kyskI hY[ auN\ AsUln vI kys qW pihlW hI lwzmI hn qy kys k`txw bjr kurihq hY[ dUjw, kkwr auh hn jo ijsm „qy bwhroN sjwey jwxy hn, Xwn auh pihlW ijsm ivc mOjUd nhIN hn (jd ik kys pihlW hI mOjUd hn)[ gurU jI ny „kys‟ is`K dI pCwx vwsqy (mrd vwsqy isr Aqy muMh dy vwl Aqy AOrq vwsqy isr& isr dy vwl) lwzmI kIqy sn nw ik swry ijsm dy vwl[

pMj kkwrW dw ipCokV
guru swihb v`loN lwzmI kIqy gey pMjW kkwrW ivcoN kMGw kysW dI s&weI vwsqy hY qy kyskI (dsqwr) kysW dI sMBwl vwsqy lwzmI hn[ dsqwr dw sweIz qy Skl is`KI ivc koeI AhmIAq nhIN rKdy[ in`kI kyskI jW pUrI p`g ivc koeI &rk nhIN[ auN\ pUrI p`g qwj dw icnH (symbol) hY[ ies nUM “is`KW dw qwj” ikhw jWdw hY (ZYr is`KW nUM ieh „bwdSwhq dw qwj‟ idsdI hY iesy kr ky ieh aunHW nUM cuBdI hY qy ies dy i^lw& iksy nw iksy bhwny n&rq dw iezhwr krdy hn qy Awny bhqny pwbMdI lwaux dI koiSS krdy rihmdy hn)[ bwkI dy iqMny kkwr (kVw, ikRpwn Aqy kCihrw) jMg dy mYdwn ivc mddgwr hox kr ky lwzmI kIqy gey sn[ ikRpwn zwlm qy hmlwvr dw twkrw krn vwsqy (Xwin ih&wzq dw, nw ik hmlw krn dw hiQAwr) hY; kVw vIxI nUM duSmx dI qlvwr dy vwr qoN bcwauNdw hY qy kCihrw dOVn, auClx, t`px vyly mddgwr huMdw sI (audoN lok isr& cwdrw hI bMnHdy sn jo jMg smyN jW B`j-dOV smyN l`Q jwx dw ^dSw huMdw sI)[

kCihry dI Skl
kCihrw is`K vwsqy iek kkwr hY[ is`KW ivc kCihry dI Skl „Aryb‟ vDyry cldI hY (hwlW ik guru goibMd isMG jI ny ies dI koeI Skl nhIN qjvIz kIqI sI[ Aryb &wrsI dw l&z hY; ijs dw mwAnw hY: tyFw, pycdwr[ ATwrHvIN sdI ivc ieh Skl ies kr ky r`KI geI sI ik ies nwl dOVn, auClx, t`px, n`cx vyly AwswnI rihMdI sI[ audoN lok isr& cwdrw hI bMnHdy sn jo jMg smyN jW B`j-dOV smyN l`Q jwx dw ^dSw huMdw sI[ ieM\ hI ies dw dUjw mksd ieh sI ik ies nwl nMgyj FikAw jWdw hY, jo jWGIey nwl mumikn nhIN sI[ hux ikauN ik pjwmw, pYNt qy slvwr aupr pweIAW huMdIAW hn ies kr ky kCihry dy Aryb hox jW nw hox nwl koeI &rk nhIN pYNdw[koeI cwhy qW ielwsitk vwlw k`Cw (jWGIAw nhIN) vI pw skdw hY Aqy Aryb k`Cy (kCihry) dy ny&y ivc nwly dI jgh ielwsitk vI pw skdw hY[

kI is`K vwsqy kys lwzmI hn jW swry ijsm dy vwl/rom ?
is`K Drm ivc kys (swry vwl nhIN) is`K dI lwswnI (ivl`Kx) pCwx vwsqy lwzmI kIqy gey sn[ vrnw vwlW dI koeI AKOqI „rUhwnI‟ AhmIAq nhIN (hW SYv lok, Xwin iSvjI nUM pUjx vwly, ies dI rUhwnI kImq mMndy hn; pr is`K Srm „SYv m`q‟ dI brWc nhIN hY)[ is`K pCwx &ls&y ivc kys dw mwAnw hY mrd vwsqy isr qy ichry dy vwl (dwVHI, mu`CW qy Brv`ty) jo ik SryAwm nzr AwauNdy hn Aqy AOrq vwsqy isr dy vwl Aqy Brv`ty[ ies qoN ielwvw bwkI dy vwlW dI pwbMdI iksy purwxI ilKq ivc nhIN hY[ ies sB frwmw audwsIAW, inrmilAW, swDW qy fyrydwrW dw kIqw hoieAw hY; auh qW vwlW dIAW jtW vI bxw lYNdy hn qy tu`ty vwlW nUM vKry sMBwl ky swVdy jW pwxI ivc su`tdy hn (is`KI muqwibk ieh vI pwKMf hY)[

pr, ieh i^Awl rhy ik gurU jI ny is`K nUM kys “swbq” r`Kx vwsqy ikhw hY nw ik kysW dI ‘inSwnI’ r`Kx vwsqy[ kys dw mwAnw hY isr dI KopVI (kpwl) Aqy ichry dy vwl (dwVHI, mu`CW Aqy Brv`ty); ies dw mwAnw swry ijsm dy vwl nhIN hY[ BweI kwhn isMG nwBw „gurmiq mwrqMf‟ (SRomxI gurduAwrw pRbMDk kmytI dI CpI AYfISn, ijld pihlI, s&w 308-9) ivc ilKdy hn ik kysW qoN murwd “kpwl dy vwl Aqy dwVHI mu`CW” hY[ Xwin, is`K nUM isr dy vwl qy dwVHI mu`CW iblkul swbq r`Kx dw hukm hY[ keI lokW ny isr dy vwl qW swbq rKy huMdy hn pr dwHVI k`tI huMdI hY[ ieh guru dy hukm dy ault hY[ dwVHI k`tx dw mwAnw hY ik Aijhw krn vwlw gurU dw hukm pUrI qrHW nhIN mMn irhw[ hW, gurU dy hukm ivc dwVHI bMnHx sbMDI koeI pwbMdI nhIN[ ieM\ hI dwVHI rMgxw r`bI/ kudrq dy hukm nUM nw mMnxw hY jo ik is`KI AsUlW dy ault hY[

swry vwlW/romW nUM nw k`tx vwlI g`l is`K Drm ivc Swiml hoey bRwhmxI iksm dy lokW, Xwin inrmilAW, audwsIAW qy swDUAW (AKOqI sMqW) ny GusyVI hY[ auN\ qW swrIAW nwjwiez s^qIAW qy pwbMdIAW ienHW bRwhmxI iksm dy lokW ny prcwrIAW hn[ is`KI dIAW ienHW A`q s^q, pr nwjwiez, pwbMdIAW kr ky lok pwhul lYx qoN frdy B`jdy hn[

AOrq dw pihrwvw Aqy myk-Ap
is`K Drm ivc pihrwvy dI koeI pwbMdI nhIN hY, nw mrd vwsqy qy nw AOrq vwsqy[ mrd vwsqy do cIzW lwzmI hn: kCihrw qy dsqwr Aqy AOrq vwsqy isr& kCihrw (AOrq cwhy qW kyskI sjw skdI hY pr rumwl/dup`tw/cuMnI vI kbUl hY – bSrqy ik ies nwl isr FikAw hovy)[

is`K bIbI vwsqy slvwr, swVI, Ggrw, lihMgw, skrt jW jInz dI koeI Srq/pwbMdI nhIN hY[ AOrq jo cwhy pw skdI hY (qy mrd vI) dohW vwsqy Srq ieh hY ik pihrwvw BVkwaU nhIN hoxw vwhIdw qy nMgyj F`k skx vwlw hoxw cwhIdw hY[ gurbwxI dw &urmwn hY: bwbw, horu pYnxu KusI KuAwru] ijqu pYDY qnu pIVIAY mn mih clih ivkwr] (gurU gRMQ swihb, s&w 16)

is`KI ivc myk-Ap krnw kbUl nhIN hY[ ilpsitk lwauxw, Brv`ty bxwauxw, So^ qy BVkIly kpVy pwauxw nklI idKwvw hY Aqy ies dw ipCokV BVkwht/aukswht pYdw krnw hY; so ieh nw-kbUl hY[ hW ^uSkI jW grmI qoN bcwA vwsqy pwaUfr qy krIm dI vrqoN Zlq nhIN hY[ auN\ ishq p`KoN vI bhuqIAW krImW qy pwaUfrW dI vrqoN ^qrnwk hY; ienHW ivc sYNkVy iksm dy kYmIkl huMdy hn, jo cmVI qy vwlW dw bhuq nukswn krdy hn[

AOrq dy ichry dy jW hor vwl
bIbIAW dy ichry dy (isr dy vwl qy Brv`itAW nUM C`f ky) vwl kudrqI nhIN hn so aunHW nUM iksy vI qrIky nwl htwauxw is`KI dy i^lw& nhIN hY[ ieh ZYr kudrqI vwl/lUeyN lyzr nwl htwauxw jW QrYifMg krnw jW blIc krnw hrigz Zlq nhIN hY[ is`K Drm ivc AOrq nUM kudrq dy Asl rUp ivc mMinAw igAw hY, qy AOrq dy ichry ‘qy vwl nhIN huMdy[ jy iksy AOrq dy ieh vwl hox qW ieh hwrmonz dw mslw ho skdw hY, jo ik mYfIkl bolI ivc iek iksm dI ‘bImwrI’ mMnI jWdI hY qy bImwrI dw ielwj krnw Zlq nhIN huMdw[

is`K rihq mirAwdw ivc rMg brMgIAW SrqW bRwhmxI iksm dy lokW, Xwin inrmilAW, audwsIAW qy swDUAW (AKOqI sMqW) ny lwzmI kIqIAW/krvweIAW sn[ienHW ny Boly Bwly is`KW nUM s^q pwbMdIAW Aqy krm kWf ivc Psw ilAw hY jd ik Asl ivc jIvn jwc hY[

kI is`K kkwrW qoN ibnW ho skdw hY?
kkwrW dy ipCokV Aqy mksd (^ws kr ky ikRpwn qy kVw) nUM swhvyN r`K ky svwl kIqw jw skdw hY ik hux ikRpwn iek ZYr zrUrI hiQAwr ho cukw hY (hux qW ipsqOl, ey.ky. 47 qy hor mwrU hiQAwr bx cuky hn) Aqy ieM\ hI jMg dy mYdwn ivc duSmx dI qlvwr dy vwr nwl vIxI k`ty jwx dw fr ^qm ho cukw hY; ies kr ky ienHW do kkwrW dI koeI loV nhIN[ ies dw jvwb nWh ivc hY[ kkwr guru ny lwzmI kIqy sn qy auh vrqoN ivc Awaux jW nw Awaux KMfy dI pwhul lYx vwly vwsqy pMjy kkwr lwzmI hn Aqy ies nUM „AslI‟ srbq Kwlsw dw iek`T vI bdl nhIN skdw[ ieh lwzmI hn qy lwzmI rihxgy[

pr, is`K dy kkkwr jnyaU vW| nhIN hn; pihlI g`l qW ieh hY ik jnyaU iek Dwgw hY ijs dw AmlI qOr „qy kMm koeI nhIN; auh mihz iek qwvIz vW| hY; hW jnyaU dw auqwirAw jwxw ihMdU nUM ADrmI bx dyNdw hY (hux, bhuqy ihMdUAW ny jnyaU auqwr id`qy hn)[ dUjy pwsy is`K dy kkwr AmlI qOr „qy kMm AwauNdy qy krdy hn[ kMGw, kCihrw, kyskI sdw Aml ivc AwauNdy hn[ ieM\ hI ikRpwn dI vrqoN qW sdw dI zrUrq rihxI hI hY (pr ikRpwn hmly vwsqy nhIN hY; ieh ih&wzq vwsqy hY; ieh if&YNs dw hiQAwr hY) qy ies kr ky kVw A`j vI qy sdw vwsqy AmlI izMdgI ivc kMm Awaux vwlI cIz hY[

ies dy nwl hI ieh g`l vI smJx vwlI hY ik is`KI sicAwr dI, eImwndwrI qy ie^lwk dI rihxI hY[ ieh BweIcwrk sWJ, syvw qy ienswnIAq BrI jIvn jwc hY; ieh rUhwnIAq dw nUr hY[ jy is`K kol ieh cIzW nhIN hn Aqy isr& kkwr pwey hoey hn qW auh is`K dMBI hY Aqy iek dMBI is`K pMQ ivc sB qoN GtIAw vjUd hY[

ieM\ hI inqnym Aqy hor bwxIAW dw pwT krn dI g`l hY[ is`K vwsqy pMj bwxIAW dI g`l inrmilAW ny SurU kIqI sI[ guru jI v`loN suJwieAw igAw inqnym guru gMQ swihb dy SurU ivc v`Krw kr ky id`qw hoieAw hY, jo ik pihly 13 s&y hn[ pr, nwl hI guru dw hukm qW ieh hY ik bwxI pVHnI Aqy vIcwrnI hY: “ifTY mukiq n hoveI ijcru sbid n kry vIcwru” (guru gRMQ swihb, s&w 594) Aqy “siqgur kI bwxI siq srUpu hY gurbwxI bxIAY” (guru gRMQ swihb, s&w 304); Xwin Sbd dw vIcwr krnw hY Aqy gurbwxI (vrgy) bxnw hY[ ibnw smJy Aqy jIvy bwxI pVHI jwxw krm kWf hY; ieh qoqw rtx hY, bymwAnw hY; BwvyN jy bMdw roz dy pMj dI jgh s`q, ds jW ijMnIAW mrzI bwxIAW pVH lvy Aqy jy koeI roz dy ds inqnym vI kr lvy[ bwxI qW pVH ky, mqlb smJ ky, aus muqwibk izMdgI ijaUx dI koiSS krn dw nW hY[ iesy kr ky A`j dy AKoqI AKMf pwT qW iblkul ^wls krm kWf hn; ieh hor jo mrzI hovy pr Gto-Gt is`KI qW nhIN hY[

(fw: hrijMdr isMG idlgIr)